I was suddenly struck by a fact and that's the reason why i'm blogging again today.
Whenever i get into quarrels, or get shouted or scolded at, i always brood over why am i so useless or hoping that both of parties would cool down and the matter be resolved by itself. However, i just realised that i'm so wrong!

In my free time, i went to google and typed out simple things like "how to make your girlfriend happy" or "how to improve on a relationship". Though it may seem kinda lame to most people, it actually does help you learn something and instead of keep arguing or having a cold war, why not start working on the relationship? Haha!


Most couples would just use the word "break up" when they feel that they get into a really big quarrel. But the fact is, both parties still love each other a lot deep down inside! And using the term "break up" may seem to be the easiest way of 'escaping' from the problem, but it actually causes great hurt to the other person. So what's the point of quarreling! Shouldn't we work to improve on our relationship? :)


And i guess most guys would just be laid back and say: "Okay, forget it. Since she wants to break up with me then so be it." To me, for a guy who actually says such a thing, he doesn't even cherish the relationship at all coz he's just sitting back and doing nothing to change the scenario. As for me, i'm gonna commit myself to spend hours sitting in front of my laptop researching and finding solutions to cure relationship problems and how to make my girlfriend happy, because she actually DOES mean a lot to me!

Okay, i'm off to do my research right away! ;)
Wish me all the best my dear friends and i wish you happiness in your relationships too! :)
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