Quotes
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
It's another day spent at home after working at Carl's in the morning till 4pm. Guess i'll have to endure with it for another week before you're back. Hmm, anyway i've stumbled upon another love quote which i feel is really true. It says: "The couple that fights the most is the one most in love... it shows they care enough to notice the other one screwed up and care enough to mention it to the person so they can fix it. When you stop fighting it means you stopped caring. "In the past and even now, whenever i care a little to much about a person who i love, i always get rebuked and the feeling really sucks coz you're trying to show concern to the person you love dearly but he or she don't seem to understand your intentions. Hmm the quote is so true coz it's usually only to the person who you care or love a lot that you will get more uptight over. So my message to couples out there who are always experiencing quarrels is to try to understand what the other person's intentions are. Maybe he or she is scolding you because he or she cares? Or maybe he or she is afraid that you will get hurt? Personally, i seldom get into quarrels or arguments with my friends or loved ones. And that's because i don't like to jump to conclusions or spark and argument. I will always keep my ears wide open to hear what the other person has to say before explaining my point of view. And that's also another reason why we have two ears but only one mouth! It's because we should listen more first and talk lesser! Haha! :P
Yea, it's really a pity when i see friends break up with their loved ones over arguments or heated quarrels. An advice i can give is to try to compromise each other more. And for both parties to learn to give in sometimes. Because if you are always headstrong in your thinking, you might tend to neglect what the other person has to say.
Alright, end of this blog post! Hope to update again soon! Hope my dear friends out there feel my piece of advice is useful! :D
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