The Break Up.
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
So yea, i guess some of you may have heard that Skye and i have broken up. It has been a short 2 months for me, but the relationship felt so long maybe because both of us were constantly tired during the relationship. There's a saying which i would like to quote. It says, "A relationship should be happy, and not one that has disputes all the time and both parties feeling tired from it." I totally agree with this quote man. A relationship should bring us happiness and bliss, but if it's bringing both parties more anxiety and stress, then it should be time to end it i guess. But what i meant is not throwing in the towel after just one setback. What i really meant is to try to patch up the disputes constantly but if all else fails after trying so many times, then a peaceful break up would be best for both parties. And that's the situation that happened between Skye and i. No one has been at fault in this relationship. Though Skye broke up on me, i wouldn't wanna point fingers or criticize her, coz both of us knew that such a day would come and one of us would come to a point that we could hold on no longer and just go our separate ways.
I've been pretty cool with things and decided to respect her decision for the break up, coz i guess that's the best solution for the both of us. We're still cool as friends now, coz i've always believed that ex lovers can still be friends.
It has been two failed relationships for me and it ended up with both girls breaking up on me, but i'll not be demoralized and i'll take this opportunity to thank them instead. I thank them because they taught me how to love, and i thank them because i know that i have been a better person with the time that i've spent with them.
I would also like to thank my dear friends who have been there for me at the deepest and darkest points of my life. Thanks a lot and you guys mean a lot to me and are my pillars of support. Lastly, i would also like to thank those who have taken time to read this post, because this shows that you care about me. Thank you friends! :)
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