In reply to anonymous people asking Rebecca weird formspring questions!
Saturday, July 24, 2010
The topic that i'm gonna blog about shall be in reply to anonymous people asking Rebecca weird formspring questions. Weird shouldn't be the word. Maybe i should use the word "rude".
The first question posed to her was:
"do you think you're despo for love? or rather you cant live without it? your entire blog before getting together with justin was just filled with love and more love and relationships."
If you're gonna ask for my honest opinion and answer, i would reply him/her: "If you are a female, you should understand the fact that females are emotional beings and usually get really emotionally attached when they are in a relationship or has a strong liking for someone. In my opinion, it's perfectly normal for a girl to have her blog revolving around relationships. Besides, blogs are like an online diary where we can openly express how we feel and we have the freedom to blog about anything that we deem fit. So what's with the criticism about her blog's content?
And if you are an avid male reader of her blog, then i hope that you can be more mindful of the words that you use. The term "despo for love" can be really hurtful to a girl. You can't just label her as "despo for love" just because she blogs about relationship matters often. Please think twice before you label others, because words inflict more harm than actions."
The second question posed to Rebecca was:
"it seems like you can't really take criticisms from others. they just merely corrected your english and you're so annoyed by it."
And if you're gonna ask me how i'm gonna handle this question, i would reply: " I'm sorry to say, but a blog is supposed to be an avenue where people write about their daily life or happenings. It isn't supposed to turn into a composition with perfect Queen's english. And it's not that she can't take criticisms. I hope you understand that it's alright to comment about her english once. I'm pretty sure she would take note of that and try to improve on it. But if it's gonna be a constant and repeated reminder again and again, you can't blame her for turning a little more nasty because you're gonna
start to sound like a grandpa or grandma. It's just like how our parents nag at us. We are perfectly fine with the nagging. But if it's gonna become too regularly, then it's gonna be a chore and it's gonna sound a little irritating. Hope that you are able to understand her standpoint too. :)"
I shall end my blogpost here now that i've spoken my mind. I mean no offence and i'm just trying to stand up for Rebecca. :)
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